|Justice (R) - When you are unwilling to seek out the
meaning of the events taking place in your life - you are being dishonest
with yourself and others and missing the opportunity to develop a greater
understanding of yourself and your life. Do not allow this unfairness to
act as an "excuse" for denying your own responsibility for what
happens to you. Accept that you may experience injustice, harsh or unfair
judgment by others and that these experiences can result in possible loss.
Accept that at these times you will feel inadequate and unable to change
the situation. No matter what is right or true - you cannot change what
people do. If someone has taken advantage of you - you can not change
things. Once you have done everything possible - stop worrying - direct
all your energies elsewhere. Accept a bad situation and go your way, for
it is through the process of elimination that you find out what it is you
really want. You will find that the "things" you eliminate were
never really necessary - fact is, they were the very obstacles standing in
the way of your happiness. As you begin to see the difference between what
you want and what you do not want in fine detail - you will begin to
eliminate the obstacles. You will learn that when they are in your way -
you are not happy. You need never worry about going "too far" to
one side or the other side - your "inner" instruction will
always bring you back to the right path again. Emotional moderation, if
taken too far - soon stifles the full expression of your feelings - you
become rigid and overly structured - spending too much time in the mind
evaluating everything and actually feeling nothing.
The ultimate question is - "What is it that you really want?" Continue to experiment until you find something that really suits you - something that makes you happy year in and year out. Your "will" is what you take great delight in - direct your energy toward bringing yourself the greatest possible rewards and never accept second best. Insist on being the best in all that you think and do and then you will be able to distinguish between what is of this world and what is not - what is transitory and what is everlasting - what is illusionary and what is real.
New - Distortion in the way of too much or too little of the above meanings. This can indicate improper use of this knowledge or a "Do as I say, but not as I do" person. A distortion of idealism into the unrealistic, dogmatic, uncompromising and the overly critical. At one extreme, permissiveness; at the other, intolerance. On the principle of balance, at one extreme too much balance yields mental stasis, rigidity, inertia. At the other extreme is not enough balance or imbalance and we can see prejudice, bias and favoritism. Unresponsiveness. Lack of attention. Dishonesty. Too much peace vs. too little peace (war), with others/with self.
Questions to Answer: What decisions are you weighing? What are the pros and cons? What consequences are you experiencing as the result of some previous action? What is the appropriate compensation or "energy exchange" needed to balance this situation? What do you need to do to be true to yourself? What is unbalancing you? What can help create a new balance?