|Three of Swords (R) - It is always hard to bear the
pain of separation or understand why we can be inflicted with such sorrow.
Learn to be receptive to circumstances which are not constructive learning
situations and consciously make the choice to remove yourself from any
situation which produces sorrow or negative vibrations. Become aware of
your natural "inner" sources of creativity and release any
dependency on others for your ideas. Concentrate your efforts on
organization - see the past as a whole picture. Stop limiting your
viewpoint by focusing only on the smaller aspects which created the sorrow
and heartache - this only causes confusion.
Be the peacemaker - never be afraid to say you are sorry. Always think before you speak so that you will not feel sorry after it's too late. When something "appears" so painful that you find yourself trying to push it away - trying not to think about it and avoiding any reminders of it - realize that this attitude only keeps the pain within you and actually increases its hold on you. Learn to accept your situation so that the healing process will not become blocked. Allow yourself to experience the pain - give yourself the right to grieve and release the heartache. Let it go - then, once the upset, pain and tears have gone - open the door to new experience. Your aching heart will need someone.
Some difficulty exists in integrating lower emotions into requirements of mind. Mind may not be integrating/using heart energy properly. Difficulty with self-expression or expressing too much. Too secretive, too gossipy. Illiterate or too literate. On one extreme, anger/loss of control - on the other extreme, placid to a fault. Misunderstanding and misuse of mind in relation to heart. Introverted or too extroverted. Shy or too verbose.
Questions to Answer: In what ways are you suffering? Feeling jealous or hurt? Has anyone hurt your feelings? What are you feeling sorrowful about? Who would you like to hurt or "get back at"? Can you look at your relationships with truth and honesty? What do you fear most within your relationships?